Category Archives: experiences

Fitting in…

It’s not quite eleven o’clock tonight. I spent the day after five thirty at the parking lot, and later the actual building, of the Santa Fe Opera House. There was a great group of people I hung out with, a … Continue reading

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thoughts on male priviledge from the other side…

Here is an interesting article on male privilege from the opposite view point of mine. A few posts down I have a video where I discuss this topic. It leads me to ask the question, is male priviledge just a … Continue reading

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Reactions…

Here is a four minute monologue on reactions of people to my gender shift. Feel free to share this with anyone it may help!

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A Lion, A Willie and a Saguaro

This is a monologue I wrote for Shattering the Silence in Alamogordo, NM. It was performed in February this year in conjunction with the V-Day events. In this monologue I talk about my gender shift journey. It is serious, funny … Continue reading

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I’m a magician!

yes, I disappeared for a while. On purpose. I’m not really back to blogging yet, but wanted to let all know that I’m doing great. Now is “ME” time. I will start posting again about my reflections and experiences in … Continue reading

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The female bladder…

I’m learning about the female bladder. Much different than the male bladder. The shorter urethra certainly makes for control issues! I first noticed when I went to my cabin in the woods just over a week ago. I had a … Continue reading

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embarrasment…

It’s hard to embarrass me. It makes it that much more impressive that post surgery stuff I have to do has rendered me embarrassed as much as buying condoms when I was 15. Thanks to self-checkout lines, some of those … Continue reading

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last estrogen shot…

YEAH!!! and WHOA!!! Yeah because I had what should be my last injection of estrogen. Once I go through surgery, I need a much smaller dosage and can take it orally. No more getting out the syringe, wine and estradiol … Continue reading

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veils of friendship…

This winter has been a rough one for me. I find myself finally being able to deal with and adjust to some new realities. It’s far from a quick process to make adjustments but the mere realization of what needs … Continue reading

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babies and sex…

I’m not going to make any profound statement the like of “you can have babies if you have sex” or “if you have sex, you may have a baby.” What this post is about is the male and female minds. … Continue reading

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