Tag Archives: friends

Fitting in…

It’s not quite eleven o’clock tonight. I spent the day after five thirty at the parking lot, and later the actual building, of the Santa Fe Opera House. There was a great group of people I hung out with, a … Continue reading

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veils of friendship…

This winter has been a rough one for me. I find myself finally being able to deal with and adjust to some new realities. It’s far from a quick process to make adjustments but the mere realization of what needs … Continue reading

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Confidence…

I was reminded of the importance of confidence the other day, a virtue I’ve always felt was of the utmost importance. I will say upfront that confidence and it’s importance should be far removed and guarded against turning into over-confidence, … Continue reading

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friends…

Often times I find myself a person whom my friends go to for moral support, to vent, and to just plain talk with about things. I usually have plenty of energy to be able to do this for my friends. … Continue reading

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holding pattern…

It’s hard to get traction on anything for me right now. I just don’t have the emotional energy to expend and that also extends frequently to physical energy. If I don’t have to do something, I generally don’t no matter … Continue reading

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the good and bad of the holiday season…

Holidays seem to be a great time during a transition to get royally pissed off at people. People who deserve your pissed off-ed-ness. Yes, pissed off-ed-ness is a word. Unfortunately, in this situation there is no winning, all it does … Continue reading

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considering friendship…

I was going to start off saying that I’ve done a lot of thinking this past week, but I always do a lot of thinking. Specifically this week, my thoughts have been on why I am so much more lonely … Continue reading

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new things…

Some nights you just learn, or become aware or, new things about yourself. Tonight I learned a few things. It’s okay if I don’t think I look good and I feel frumpy. My friends really don’t give a shit. Going … Continue reading

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intimacy…

It’s 3:30am and I haven’t slept yet tonight. I’ve just been laying in various places around my apartment trying to fall asleep, yet my thoughts don’t allow that. This is the side of this process that is often most difficult, … Continue reading

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